

Many mothers notice that their baby gets tired while breastfeeding, struggles to latch properly, or sometimes milk dribbles from their mouth, accompanied by a clicking sound during sucking.The truth is, the cause could be very simple yet quite common among infants: a lip tie or a short frenulum! The frenulum is a small piece of tissue that connects the lip to the gum. When it’s tighter than usual, it can affect the movement of the lip and make breastfeeding more difficult.And that’s when the question every parent wonders arises:
Does my baby need a frenectomy, or will it get better on its own over time?
In this article, we’ll cover in detail:
How to tell if your baby has a lip tie.
The signs that indicate the condition needs intervention.
The types of surgery your doctor might recommend.
Important tips after the procedure if it’s necessary.
Follow the article to the end to understand everything calmly and make the best decision for your baby ❤️
A lip tie, also known as a labial frenulum, is a thin piece of tissue that connects the upper lip to the upper gum or the lower lip to the lower gum.
This tissue is present in all babies and helps the lips move naturally during breastfeeding and speech.
However, in some cases, the frenulum can be short, thick, or too tight, which is what we call a "lip tie."
This condition can cause problems in:
Breastfeeding: The baby may have difficulty latching properly.
Dental development: It can cause gaps between the front teeth.
Speech later on: If untreated, it may affect pronunciation.
Lip ties are more common in the upper lip, but they can also occur in the lower lip. While having a frenulum is normal, severe cases may require a simple intervention by a doctor.
Generally, no. Using a bottle or pacifier can make it harder for babies with a lip tie to suck effectively.
If your baby needs them, it should only be under the supervision of a pediatrician or lactation consultant to avoid worsening the problem.
If you notice that your baby:
Gets tired or struggles while breastfeeding
Milk dribbles from their mouth
Or is not gaining weight properly
…you should consult a pediatrician or pediatric dentist to assess the severity and decide if intervention is needed.
Not at all. The procedure is very simple, quick, and usually doesn’t cause real pain for the baby.
Most infants can breastfeed within minutes, and discomfort typically improves the same day or the next day.
In mild cases, the frenulum may stretch naturally as the baby grows.
But if the tissue is thick or very tight, it usually won’t resolve on its own and may require a simple procedure called a frenectomy.
Untreated lip ties can cause problems that appear at different stages of development:
Early on: Difficulty breastfeeding, fatigue, or slow feeding.
Later: Gaps between upper front teeth, speech delays or difficulties, gum recession, and uneven jaw or altered smile appearance.
Early diagnosis and treatment can prevent these complications.
Comparison | Upper Lip Tie | Lower Lip Tie |
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Location | Tissue between upper lip and upper gum | Tissue between lower lip and lower gum |
Prevalence | More common | Less common but can occur |
Observation in infants | Usually noticed during breastfeeding due to poor latch or milk leakage | Sometimes noticed during breastfeeding but less obvious |
Signs during feeding | Difficulty latching, milk leakage, clicking sound, cracked nipples, slow weight gain | Quick fatigue during feeding, minor milk leakage, difficulty closing lower lip tightly |
Effect on teeth | Gap between upper front teeth, tension in upper gum | Possible gum recession or exposed lower teeth |
Effect on speech | May affect pronunciation of sounds like “f”, “b”, “m” | Rare, only in severe cases |
Lip appearance | Upper lip appears lifted and tight, smile may be affected | Lower lip appears droopy or tight downward |
Symptoms in older children | Difficulty cleaning teeth, food trapping, gum discomfort | Mild gum tension or slight discomfort when moving lip |
Diagnosis | Visual exam by pediatrician or dentist, sometimes using a simple tool to assess lip movement | Same method, to check flexibility of lower lip |
Treatment | Observation if mild; simple surgery (frenectomy) if affecting feeding or teeth | Same procedure, minor surgery improves feeding and speech |
Best timing for intervention | Days to months if affecting breastfeeding, or after 1.5 years if affecting teeth or speech | Based on case, usually after 6 months if clear issues |
Lip tie usually occurs due to genetic factors or development inside the womb, not because of birth method or feeding.
Cause | Explanation |
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Genetics | Most common; often a family member (mother or father) had the same issue as a child. |
Incomplete development during pregnancy | During formation of the mouth in the womb, the tissue that connects lip to gum should recede or become thinner. If not, the frenulum may be short or thick. |
Tissue formation issues | Sometimes tissue is less flexible or thicker than normal, making the frenulum tighter. |
Tongue tie also present | Some babies have both tongue tie and lip tie, related to oral tissue development in the womb. |
Not related to birth position or feeding | The condition is caused by genetic and tissue factors, not by how the baby was born or fed. |
The labial frenulum is a small thread of tissue connecting the lip to the gum, and its shape and attachment location vary from child to child.
Type | Description | Potential Issue |
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Mucosal Frenum | Attaches near the base of the lip, not reaching teeth | Usually normal, rarely causes problems |
Gingival Frenum | Attaches higher, closer to front teeth | May cause mild tension, rarely affects breastfeeding |
Papillary Frenum | Reaches the small gum ridge (papilla) between front teeth | Can cause small gap or tension while feeding |
Papillary Penetrating Frenum | Extends between front teeth to inner gum | Most problematic; often requires surgery due to impact on feeding and teeth |
???? Important tip for mothers:
Not every visible frenulum is a problem.
What matters is how tight it is and how it affects lip movement and feeding, not just its presence.
Lip tie in babies can be mild, moderate, or severe, which determines how obvious the symptoms are.
Here are the main signs that may indicate your baby has a lip tie:
Difficulty latching properly.
Clicking or “popping” sounds while nursing.
Milk leaking from the corners of the mouth.
Baby tires quickly or falls asleep before finishing a feed.
Slow weight gain despite regular feeding.
Nipple pain or cracking due to improper latch.
Engorgement or recurrent breast infections because the baby isn’t emptying the breast properly.
Upper or lower lip does not move up or down naturally.
Visible tight tissue between lip and gum when gently lifting the baby’s lip.
Difficulty opening the mouth fully while sucking.
Gap between the front teeth.
Difficulty pronouncing sounds like “f,” “b,” “m.”
Mild tension or discomfort in the gums when laughing or talking.
Problem | How Lip Tie Causes It | Signs Mom May Notice |
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Difficulty latching | Lip tie prevents the lip from flipping outward properly, so the baby can’t latch onto the nipple or areola correctly | Baby repeatedly tries to latch, lets go quickly, or cries |
Milk leakage | Lip cannot seal tightly on the breast | Milk dribbles from baby’s mouth or chin |
Clicking sounds | Air enters the mouth instead of keeping a tight seal | Mom hears repeated clicks or popping sounds |
Swallowing air (gas/colic) | Baby swallows air during feeding | Baby cries after feeding, bloated belly |
Fatigue while feeding | Baby works harder to extract milk | Baby falls asleep mid-feed |
Poor weight gain | Weak suck = less milk = fewer calories | Weight increases slowly |
Nipple pain/cracks | Baby pulls on nipple to compensate for weak latch | Severe pain or cracked nipples after each feed |
The frenulum (the thin tissue connecting the lip to the gum) changes in shape and length as the baby grows.
Age | Frenulum Shape & Function | Notes |
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Birth – 2 months | Thick and prominent between lip and gum | Normal unless it affects breastfeeding |
3 – 6 months | Longer and more flexible | If baby feeds well, everything is fine |
6 – 12 months (teething begins) | Gum changes with emerging teeth; frenulum moves slightly upward | Mild tension or small gap is normal |
1 – 2 years | Frenulum matures, flexibility increases | Mild tension may resolve on its own |
After 2 years (primary teeth stage) | Final shape usually normal | If still thick, doctor may consider removal |
Important note: Not every visible frenulum is a problem. Doctors usually wait until teething to see if the frenulum loosens naturally. If it affects feeding or breathing, early intervention is recommended.
Mothers can notice potential lip tie at home, but should be very gentle:
Step | Method | What to Observe |
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1. Wash hands | Ensure hands are very clean before touching baby’s mouth | — |
2. Gently lift the lip | Use your index finger to lift upper or lower lip slowly | Lip should move easily and naturally |
3. Observe the tissue | Look at the thin band of skin connecting lip and gum | Thick or tight tissue may indicate a lip tie |
4. Watch lip movement during crying or feeding | Observe lip flipping naturally | If lip doesn’t move, lip tie is likely |
5. Observe lip while feeding | Watch in a mirror if needed | If lip remains “closed” and doesn’t flip, it’s a sign of tie |
6. Monitor other signs | Difficulty latching, milk leakage, slow weight gain | Multiple signs increase likelihood of lip tie |
⚠️ Note: Home observation gives an initial idea only.
Final diagnosis must be done by a pediatrician or pediatric dentist, as some ties are mild and don’t require intervention, while others may need a simple procedure called frenectomy.
If left untreated, lip tie can cause issues from infancy through childhood:
Stage | Possible Problems | Explanation |
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Breastfeeding | Difficulty latching, milk leakage, slow weight gain | Limited lip movement reduces effective sucking |
Mother | Nipple pain, cracks, engorgement | Baby doesn’t empty breast properly |
Digestive issues | Swallowing air, colic, bloating | Air enters instead of milk |
Teething | Gaps between front teeth, gum tension | Tight frenulum affects gum and teeth alignment |
Oral hygiene | Difficulty cleaning teeth, food accumulation, gum inflammation | Limited lip movement makes cleaning hard |
Speech | Difficulty pronouncing “f,” “b,” “m” | Lip not flexible enough for proper sounds |
Smile & lip shape | Tight or raised/lowered lips, stiff smile | Short frenulum restricts natural lip movement |
Important: Not every baby with a lip tie will have all these symptoms, but if a mother notices multiple signs (like feeding difficulties, gaps between teeth, or speech problems), the baby should see a doctor promptly.
Comparison | Frenectomy | Frenuloplasty |
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Definition | Complete or partial removal of the tissue connecting lip or tongue to gum | Adjustment of frenulum shape and position without full removal |
Goal | Remove excess tension affecting feeding or lip movement | Improve frenulum shape/flexibility for normal lip movement and appearance |
When used | When frenulum is very short or tight affecting feeding/teeth | When frenulum is moderate tension or affecting appearance/function |
Procedure | Cut with simple surgical tool or laser, usually no stitches | Tissue adjustment with delicate cosmetic sutures |
Duration & ease | Very short (1–5 minutes), baby can breastfeed immediately | Slightly longer (10–15 minutes), usually under local or mild sedation |
Recovery | Very fast, heals in a few days | Slightly longer due to stitches, follow-up required |
Expected results | Immediate improvement in feeding and lip movement | Cosmetic and functional improvement in moderate cases |
When doctor decides | Primary goal is improving breastfeeding | When cosmetic or moderate tension can be corrected without full removal |
Diagnosis is usually based on observing symptoms and a simple exam, sometimes even mothers notice the signs.
Diagnosis steps:
Initial observation by mother: Notice breastfeeding difficulties such as poor latch, milk leakage, clicking sounds, or slow weight gain.
External lip exam: Gently lift the upper or lower lip to check for thick or tight tissue between lip and gum.
Assessing tension: Graded from mild (flexible tissue) to severe (thick, tight tissue).
Specialist exam: Pediatrician or pediatric dentist evaluates lip movement, frenulum shape, and effect on feeding or speech.
Feeding assessment with lactation consultant: Observes latch and mouth seal to confirm if frenulum is the cause.
Important notes:
Early diagnosis prevents feeding problems and nipple pain.
Mild cases may only require monitoring; severe cases often need frenulum release (frenectomy).
A frenectomy is a very simple procedure performed when the tissue connecting lip and gum is too short or tight.
Goals:
Improve lip movement
Facilitate breastfeeding
Support proper breathing and speech development
Surgery Type | Description | Advantages | Disadvantages |
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Traditional scalpel (Frenectomy) | Cutting the frenulum manually with a small surgical tool | Simple, can be done in clinic without general anesthesia | Slight bleeding, requires wound care |
Laser Frenectomy | Laser cuts tissue and seals blood vessels simultaneously | Faster, almost no bleeding, baby can feed immediately, faster healing, less pain | Requires specialist and laser equipment, slightly more expensive |
Frenuloplasty | Adjusts position and shape of frenulum with cosmetic sutures | Preserves natural lip shape, suitable for moderate cases | Slightly longer, requires local anesthesia and precise suturing |
Partial Frenectomy | Cuts a small portion to reduce tension | Good for mild cases in very young infants | May require follow-up if tension returns with growth |
After Surgery:
Baby can usually feed immediately or within a few hours.
Doctor may recommend gentle lip exercises after procedure.
Healing occurs within a few days, results usually excellent.
Assessment: Doctor examines lip and mouth to determine need.
Sterilization & local anesthesia: Mild spray or gel for pain-free procedure.
Frenulum release: Using small surgical tool or safe laser for infants.
Control bleeding: Minimal, stops within seconds, especially with laser.
Immediate feeding: Encouraged to aid healing and lip movement.
⏱ Duration: 1–5 minutes, baby can feed normally afterward.
Immediate improvement in breastfeeding latch
Reduces nipple pain and cracking for mother
Prevents future dental issues, like gaps between front teeth
Restores normal lip movement, aiding proper speech development
Tip | Explanation |
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Breastfeed immediately | Reduces pain and prevents tissue adhesion |
Cold compresses | Soft cotton soaked in cold water (not ice) for minor swelling |
Oral hygiene | Gentle cleaning once daily with warm, damp cotton |
Pain relief as advised | Mild pain relief gel or medication per doctor’s instructions for first 1–2 days |
Lip exercises | Gently lift lip twice daily to prevent tissue sticking; light massage under lip with clean finger |
Avoid irritants | No creams or antiseptics without doctor’s advice |
Follow-up after a week | Ensure healing and proper lip movement |
⚠️ Important: If baby still struggles to feed, or there is excessive bleeding or redness, return to the doctor immediately.
In most cases, improvement is noticeable within the first 1–2 days.
1. Gently Moving the Lip Up and Down
Wash your hands thoroughly.
Use your index finger or thumb to gently move the upper lip up and down.
Do this twice a day for 1–2 minutes.
Purpose: Prevent the lip from sticking to the gum and improve flexibility.
2. Gentle Lip Massage
Place a clean finger under the upper or lower lip.
Massage the lip with small, gentle circular motions.
Purpose: Relieve tension in the new tissue and stimulate natural movement.
3. Opening the Lip During Feeding
Observe the lip movement while breastfeeding.
Encourage the baby to feed while ensuring the lip moves freely.
Purpose: Acts as a natural exercise for the lip during feeding.
4. Mirror Exercises (for Older Children)
When the child is a bit older, the doctor may recommend teaching them to move their lips in front of a mirror.
Purpose: Improve muscle control and achieve a natural smile appearance.